Proposed?

Several days ago, my father offered a girl to me whether i could accept her as a close friend or so
I denied it. Hell i'm not even thinking that far yet. Let me just make up myself for it. I can choose things by myself and that is include my life and further life plans.
Let me just do the things by my own and learn through life.

I don't mean to be rude, but for now, i'm ok by my own. I never had any girlfriend for 21 years already, well one say that it's a record. But still, i'm just fine. I can entertain myself and keep going. So, please, don't treat me as if i'm not knowing how to choose my match.
I have my own standards