Jealousy stuff part 2

- Why have to be jealous?
First, take a look at the environment and the factors that are involved. Jealousy is basically sourced from a thing called difference and comparisons. To be more precise, difference on credit or obtained stuff.
Some important factors of differences such as skills, is obviously crucial in igniting jealousy.
For those who don't have wits, and can't be better than one person no matter how hard he tries, will lead to jealousy.
It is normal to be jealous, since we're human who can think, and know about standards that could determine which stuff is good, is better, or is the best one.

- Couldn't it be just admiring rather than being jealous?
Depends on 2 things
1, The persons that are involved
If the 2 persons doesn;t know each other well, rarely to meet, not that known to each other, not that close as a friend to each other, it is less likely to be jealous. Since both of them would think each other as mere strangers, who dont need to be put more attention onto
2. Environment
This also involves on where, and what. Where? If the 2 persons played on the same ground, it's more likely to jealous since they often meet. What? If the 2 persons play the same role, it's more likely to jealous since there is one thing that we called Competency, that we can hardly avoid of, in spite of word Friendship and or Cooperation. Even only a nibble, sense of Competency should be exist within the 2 people who has the same role


- Jealousy leads to nowhere and despair
O rly? It's too early to say that. Jealousy could means positive and negative
Positive
1. We know our limitation
2. We know we have to work harder
3. If that person knows that someone is in jealous to him, he might need to introspect his deeds, or talk more to the guy who is jealous of him to find more details of the jealousness
4. We know that someone is better than us, so don't just quickly satisfied with what you have
5. Indirectly or directly boost our intuition to make more inovations

Negative
1. Ignites quarrel
2. Breaking of friendship
3. Madness
4. Quitting/Stopping/Giving up
5. Become passive when the jealous-ed person is around